
There's an App for That!
Parenting at a Distance: There’s an App for That!
The role of parenting during deployments can be difficult to maintain across time and space but in the world we live in today, there’s an app for that!
There’s an old saying, “Once a parent, always a parent,” but as many military families can attest, parenting at a distance can be quite a challenge. Finding ways to connect, maintain parental roles and keep up with some of the daily activities our children are engaging in can be difficult when at home, much less during deployments. This is where the marvels of a technological era come into play.
Welcome to the age of technology! While we are not advocating that deployed soldiers sacrifice their work responsibilities, if being a more involved parent or caregiver while deployed is what you seek, a virtual trip to your mobile or online application store may be just the ticket.
Staying Connected

Serviceman Talking to Family
According to child development professionals, maintaining a sense of connectivity with your child(ren) “is key” to building strong parent-child relationships. But what happens when a parent or caregiver is deployed? In these situations, developing and maintaining those close parental or caregiver bonds may take some additional effort from all involved. Phone calls, letters, emails, Skype, Yahoo IM, Google Talk, or Google+ Hangout conversations are all excellent ways to communicate with loved ones via long distances and there are other options for maintaining the ties that bind as well.
Bedtime Stories

Storytime
If you find yourself missing your child’s evening bedtime stories, there is a great app called A Story Before Bed that may help you out. And, for a limited time, military service members can record a bedtime story for their child for FREE. The site has a great selection and hundreds of recordable e-book titles. To record, simply use your webcam to capture a video of you reading the story and once you are happy with the recording you can save and share it with your little ones via the website, iPad or iPhone (free in iTunes). If you have an ipad2 you can create the recordings on the go! You can also record while reading the story with your child before you are deployed and your little one can cherish your story time together until you return.
And Android users, we aren’t leaving you out. If you have not yet taken a bite out of the Apple, Zoodles is another great app that also has a companion Kid Mode app (free on Android Market). Currently they have 13 recordable storybooks, and a ton of age-appropriate games and art project s. If you sign up you will get weekly reports of what your little one is up to while playing with the application. Their introductory book Three Little Pigs is free, but you can also buy other books for $2.99 or with a premium subscription get them for free ($7.95 per month, $39.95 for six months or $59.95 for a year).
For those who want something a little less techie, Hallmark, Reader’s Digest, Publications International and many others offer recordable storybooks (from $10-$35) that provide built-in voice recorders to capture your voice as you read the story to your child. Each page has a separate recording device and you can record as many times as necessary to create the perfect storybook. When the child opens the book, special sensors determine which page the child is on and play back your recording. You can also lock the book so it cannot be accidentally erased. Titles include “Guess How Much I Love You” and “Hey Diddle, Diddle!” and “Goodnight Moon,” and there are even books based on licensed characters such as Cars, Thomas the Train, Disney Princess and Elmo.
Also remember that everyone loves bedtime stories. So think about recording your own family bedtime storybook to send to your soldier while deployed. Your soldier will love hearing the voices of the ones (s)he loves reading their favorite story.
Video Cards or Messages

e-Card
If you are craving something a bit more personal (such as creating a personalized video card) try creating and editing your own video with the Pixorial app. Creating memories that last a lifetime has never been easier! Pixorial believes it should be easy to create, edit, and share videos across time and space using multiple devices (including both IOS and Android). You can also share your videos via all your social media outlets such as Facebook, Twitter, Google+, or YouTube. The free service offers 1GB of video storage space or for a minimal $19.99/year you can have 10GB of video storage. You can even choose to order DVDs of your favorite clips.
If you want something a little less involved, create a “Starring You” e-card. JibJab is a web-based e-card development site that allows you to create animated e-cards for any occasion by integrating pictures of your family and friends into the cards. Membership is $12 per year ($1 per month) for unlimited access to the e-card development site.
Parental Responsibilities
Apps can do much more these days that just help us to connect. They can also help us be better parents. For military families deployment often means parental responsibilities rest on the shoulders of the parent or caregiver at home. But now, even deployed parents can get involved with some of the responsibilities of parenting.
Keeping up with Household Chores

Chores
If you want to help your partner ensure your children are doing their chores, there are now apps like Epic Win and Your Rule Chores that help keep track of the chores your children complete. With Epic Win, once you install the app on your iPad or iPhone ($2.99 on iTunes) you get a full-featured to-do list that supports repeating tasks, reminders for overdue events, and time-critical events that can be assigned to specific days of the week. Each time a task is completed it is destroyed by your child’s Avatar. Further, Epic Win integrates into your Google Calendar so you know when your child has completed a chore.
With You Rule Chores, simply install the app on your iPad or iPhone ($3.99 on iTunes). Each child gets their own avatar and as chores are completed, the children earn coins (similar to an allowance), level up (new gadgets and powers), and the first one to complete ALL their chores Rules! With parental controls such as password protection, chore creation, wish list approval, and daily reminders getting the children to complete their chores has never been easier. While multi-device synching is not yet available, the developers promise it will be delivered in the near-future.
Homework

Homework
Homework can be a daily battle for many parents. But now many schools have begun to implement parent portals that allow parents to access their child’s progress reports online. These portals are secure and allow parents access to all work the child has completed as well as incomplete and future assignments. So the next time you ask your child what they learned in school, you will know exactly what your child is studying. To inquire about a parent portal, email your child’s teacher or call the school.
Schedules and Routines

Digital Calendar
Being a parent requires quite a bit of scheduling. For deployed parents, feelings of being left out are not uncommon. One way to help the deployed parent or caregiver feel they are a part of the daily activities of the family is to create a family calendar using a web-based Google Calendar. Because Google Calendar syncs with all devices, it offers a perfect option for families on the go. Simply create a shared calendar, download the Google Calendar to your device, and sync. Once everyone has the calendar on their device, each member can add things that all family members can view or edit. Color-coding, email or text reminders, event invitation and tracking, email integration, and interesting calendars make Google Calendar a great tool for connecting families. And as illustrated above, some of the apps highlighted here even sync with your Google Calendar making it easy to keep up with the family’s schedule with just one glance.
Whether you are looking to record a bedtime story, share a special moment, create a video card, celebrate a special event, or enhance your parental responsibilities across time and space, the technology to help you bond with your loved ones is only a click away. Because now, there’s an app for that!
So what are we missing? What apps do you use to stay connected to your loved ones across time and space? Share your ideas in the comments below!